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Shani

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2011-02-08 17-38-05

help my girlfriend watches gay porn hi out there. I'm new here, I only discovered this forum recently. You guys seemed like the right people to ask for advice on this. A couple months ago, while using my girlfriend's computer, I stumbled across some links to gay (male) porn sites in her browser history. In general, i have no problem with my partner looking at porn. I don't think it's any of my business. But this made me feel very insecure. It happened several times, and bothered me to the point where i needed to talk to her about it, even though i knew it would make her feel exposed and uncomfortable. Our conversation ended in tears on both ends, and i was left just as confused as ever. She said she looks at gay male porn because the objectification of women in both straight porn and lesbian porn made for male audiences makes her uncomfortable. She said in gay porn she finds it believable that both men are actually enjoying themselves and that's what turns her on. Intellectually, i understand that. But on a less rational level, it still makes no sense to me and i feel really threatened by it. I know she's 100% gay, so how can looking at penises turn her on? I know she doesn't want to talk about it, but i'm still confused. Is it common for lesbians to be turned on by gay men?
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2011-02-12 17-39-46

Gay male porn is HOT and from my experience, I am not the only lesbian that thinks so. I do not like penises, not in the least, but something about gay guy porn is totally hot. So I wouldn't look at that as the issue, so much as your insecurity regarding her watching porn, period, maybe.
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  • yevette

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    2011-02-15 4-15-34-

    That's a common reason for liking gay porn the absence of objectification, the spirit of fun, everybody usually gets in on the action, nobody is humiliated or made fun of. A lot of women of various orientations like it for those reasons. I saw a hilarious gay porn movie targeted to "Bears" where at point the guys attacked a lumberjack who said in a moment of foreshadowing " I think there are bears in these woods" and were actually acting like Bears, growling and clawing him. All of the actors were almost cracking up. You just never see anything like that in straight or "lesbian' porn.
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  • pontbriand

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    2011-02-20 5-24-30-

    oh gawd Even see the words "lesbian porn" makes me tense. I don't know if there is anything less sexy than the lesbian porn I've seen.
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    2011-02-24 5-03-11-

    That's why I put it in quotes straight men will consume it no matter what. I kind of liked Sugar High Glitter City and some of the Maria Beatty fetish films (which are extremely pretentious). And to give straight guys the benefit of the doubt I'm not sure the ickiness of the porn that is marketed to them is entirely their fault.
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    2011-03-25 16-05-20

    I like the targeted at boys better than the targeted at lesbians. I watched where they did their thing, then the actresses sat around and talked about the scene. WE ARE NOW PROCESSING OUR PORN?!!?
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    2011-07-23 20-31-43

    maybe there's a lack of objectification of women but the men objectify each other all over the place - that's what makes porn porn. plus the objectification the viewer is doing, by watching it to get off. i'd argue that there is no hot sex without objectification, and that, is exactly what's wrong with a lot of lesbian porn.
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  • gipe

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    2011-11-03 15-17-55

    i'd just say it's not to your taste and not privilege kind of porn over another in that particular way.
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    2011-12-23 12-38-45

    Actually some older straight porn (x's x's) is similar to gay porn ( sense of humor, playful, just people having fun). The trend of really extreme, mean spirited "gonzo" straight porn is pretty recent. So I don't even think it is a refection on straight men just a recent trend in what is marketed to them. I've read some essays that trace porn trends to specific social factors. Some people link the advent of bukake porn to anxiety over HIV and STD's, that this genre of porn eroticizes a recent fear and anxiety related to bodily fluids. I think the OP was referring ( or at least I guess) to Max Hardcore type straight porn not just stuffy that is raunchy or fetishistic. That's a guess on my part. Some people have a problem with a lot of porn. I just shy away from the mean spirited stuff. And I also have an intellectual interest in the underlying cultural history. That stuff is pretty recent. I wonder what it comes out of? Larger social anxieties? The rise of amateur video like Youtube? An interest in extreme physical activities and pain seen in other nonsexual contexts like Jackass or extreme sports?
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    2011-12-26 9-06-52-

    maybe it is thing if you and your girlfriend are not having any sex and she claims to not be interested, but in her spare time is slavering over gay porn. And another if the of you have an active sex life and there are those moments when of you isn't home and well... Sounds like there were some things it brought up in your relationship that were uncomfortable or caused you some tears. It isn't about you or anything you lack. That may be just the type of imagery that works for her. And, as said above, lots of folks like it better than hetero or straight porn, regardless of their orientation.
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    cooter

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    2012-02-24 15-42-39

    almost every lesbian i know prefers gay male porn.. well, the ones that watch any porn at all. i was jealous of my ex watching gay male porn too. but after watching it on my own, i see the appeal. it is just the most believable. i'd rather watch straight porn than lesbian porn any day, also. and i HATE penises. gross. I like vag on vag all the way... But it's boring to watch, esp since none seem realistic.
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    2012-03-16 1-49-57-

    Why are you looking through her browser history? I would suspect that you were insecure before you saw the porn, and are using that discovery to validate your insecurity.
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    2012-07-23 3-42-22-

    Oh, and leave her the hell alone There is no reason for you to give her shit about her porn. Just because you are sleeping with her doesn't mean you own her. She is entitled to her own fantasies. If you make that difficult for her she will either leave, lie to you, or stop and resent the hell out of you. All of which will be completely your fault.
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    Agreed. The only problem here, from what I've read, is that the OP finds it threatening (her word, not mine. Her GF isn't doing anything wrong or even unusual.
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    2012-11-27 17-32-16

    thanks! It helps to know that it's a common turn on and that it doesn't necessarily mean she wants me to put on a strap-on and do her up the butt. whats the name of the movie about bears? thatsounds great. maybe i can get into this myself...
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